It’s frustrating to wait for a guy to reply after initiating a text conversation. You’re either constantly checking your phone for a notification, or you’re browsing through apps hoping to see his name appear at the top of the screen so you can continue chatting. Everyone experiences it, and so do I. The fact of the matter is, when he ignores, there are certain reasons why it happens.
This is the real question we have to answer to understand what is happening here and how to change it. The simple reason why he doesn’t text back because he knows what you’re going to say.
Texting, like conversation is supposed to be exciting. If your every answer is predictable and boring then why should he even text you at all? If a guy is feeling this way then he has no motivation to text you back, much less ask you out again.
In other words, these are the 3 reasons why:
a) Not interested in texting
b) Conversation is too stale
c) They think you’re not interested
Despite those reasons, there are certain ways to start a conversation while keeping things fresh. So..how do you overcome this issues? In this article, we will explore 3 texts men respond to and how to use them today..
1. The Feel Good Text
One of my go-to texts is what I call “The Feel Good Text.” The idea is to make your crush feel warm and fuzzy inside with a compliment or joke. For example, during a date, what I can suggests is sending a text saying, “The server is totally flirting with you.” This not only lets your crush know you find them desirable, but it also creates a secret between the two of you.
It is sort of like an “inside joke” but in a way that makes him feel good. What if both of you are not meeting yet? Well, you can use either way.
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2. The Influencer
Another effective text strategy is called “The Influencer.” This involves responding to one of your crush’s Instagram stories instead of sending a text out of the blue. By engaging with something your crush has already put out there, you increase your chances of getting a response and starting a conversation. One, it’s not out of the blue. You’re responding to something he’s put out there rather than reaching out to him for no reason. Plus it’s on social media so you don’t have to worry about having his phone number.
Besides that, it’s a great way to talk about something you know he’s interested in and excited about. Say he posts a photo of a good looking plate of nachos. Simply replying with “That looks so good! Where did you get that?” is an easy, breezy way to get a conversation going.
3. The Specific Question
When it comes to texting, using boring, cookie-cutter questions can kill a conversation fast. No one wants to have the same conversation over and over again. To keep things interesting, it’s important to make your questions more specific.
Not only does this get him talking, but it also shows off your personality and wit. It’s easy to turn a boring question into an exciting one – just change a few words. For example, instead of asking “What’s your favorite band?” try asking “What’s the best band you’ve ever seen live?” This lets him know that you’re into live music and gives him the opportunity to tell a story.
If you’ve been talking for a while and feel like the conversation is starting to fizzle out, try a fun game of “twenty questions.” Ask him, “Want to take my survey? It’s only twenty questions.” Then, ask a series of “either or” questions, such as “Pizza or burgers?”, “Movies or TV?”, and “Pub or club?”
This short game is a fun way to show him that you’re not afraid to be silly. As you continue the conversation, you can drop in funnier and more revealing questions. Just make sure to avoid questions that feel like a job interview. Keep them fun and easy to answer.
The Thing Is…
Just these 3 of these alone may not solve the entire problem. Now the next part of the conversation is where it gets tricky. Once you know how to start a conversation with a guy you like, how do you keep him talking and get him to like you through texting? That will be the focus of our next article. Don’t worry, I have got it figured out. There are text and phrases that one can say to trigger his desire to chase you…
Did you know that you can trigger a man’s hormones through your text messages?
It’s true. How you communicate with a man can actually release different hormones in his body.
One of the most important ones is testosterone because that’s what makes him CHASE you, pursue you, and invest in you so that he gets “hooked” and desires something more with you.
Want to trigger this in your man?
P.S. You can actually trigger a “cocktail of emotions” inside a man that make him feel like he can’t get you out of his mind and even feel addicted to you, if you text him a certain way.